Tuesday, August 19, 2025

DeSantis Isn’t Removing Pride Crosswalks for Safety—He’s Erasing Us

Let’s Talk Truth: DeSantis Isn’t Removing Pride Crosswalks for Safety—He’s Erasing Us

I’ve got to be real with you—all the talk about “traffic safety” being the reason for removing rainbow crosswalks in Florida is nonsense. If cities know it’s important to our community, to our kids, to our humanity, then maybe it’s time we stop pretending this is anything but a political attack. Because in truth, that’s exactly what this is.






What’s Going On?

The Florida Department of Transportation (FDOT) is threatening to remove Pride-themed street art—the beautiful rainbow crosswalks some municipalities pay for—if cities don’t tear them down themselves by September 3. Otherwise, FDOT will just wipe them out “by any appropriate method necessary,” no warning, no nuance.

In Delray Beach, city commissioners just voted to keep theirs, and for good reason. Vice Mayor Rob Long gave one of the most powerful, honest speeches I’ve heard in a while:

“We all know this is not about traffic safety. This is political … symbols of inclusion are targeted precisely because they represent acceptance. It’s about erasing the visibility of our LGBTQ+ people.”

Bingo. That nails it.


Why These Symbols Matter—a Lot

It's not just paint on concrete. These crosswalks tell our youth, our families, and even travelers: you are seen, you are valued, you belong. Removing them without even discussing where to put a replacement sends a loud, clear message: your existence is not welcome here. That’s not branding—it’s basic human dignity.


This Is Part of a Larger, Sinister Pattern

Look closer. This crackdown on Pride crosswalks isn’t happening in isolation—it’s part of a widespread effort across Florida to squash LGBTQ+ visibility:

  • In St. Petersburg, protesters were rallying to save not just Pride murals, but Black history murals too—calling out a pattern of erasing civil rights symbols and stories.
  • The FDOT banned rainbow lighting on state bridges, restricting displays to red, white, and blue—meaning even a ceremonial show of Pride was deemed too divisive.

This is about making us invisible.


What We Can Do—Because We Must

The forces behind these moves? They want us to shrink, hide, and apologize for who we are. But we mustn’t.

  • Show up and speak up at council meetings.
  • Share truths, like what Vice Mayor Rob Long said—explicitly: this is political, this is erasure.
  • Support cities that stand firm in keeping their Pride displays, and push them to go further—plan replacements if something is forced down.
  • Amplify our symbols, our pride, and our resistance.

Because the fight isn’t just for crosswalks or murals—it’s about refusing to let hate invisibly win.


Final Thoughts

Removing a rainbow crosswalk isn’t an administrative choice. It’s a message: your existence is expendable. But let me tell you—we are not invisible.

So, show up, speak out, and resist. Because our full, loud, colorful humanity is worth everything. And no one should ever make us feel otherwise.

 

Read more at https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2025/08/desantis-admin-cracks-down-on-pride-displays-its-about-erasing-our-lgbtq-people/

Thursday, June 26, 2025

Celebrating 10 Years of Love and Equality: The Legacy of Obergefell v. Hodges



June 26, 2025 marks a powerful milestone in American history—the 10th anniversary of the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision in Obergefell v. Hodges, the ruling that made same-sex marriage legal across all 50 states. For millions of LGBTQ+ Americans and their allies, June 26 isn’t just a date on the calendar—it’s a symbol of love, dignity, and the enduring pursuit of equality.

A Landmark Decision

On June 26, 2015, the Supreme Court ruled in a 5–4 decision that the fundamental right to marry is guaranteed to same-sex couples under the Fourteenth Amendment. Writing for the majority, Justice Anthony Kennedy stated:

“No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family... They ask for equal dignity in the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right.”

This ruling wasn’t just a legal triumph—it was a deeply personal victory for couples who had long been denied the right to publicly affirm their love and commitment. For people like Jim Obergefell, whose lawsuit was borne out of love for his late husband John Arthur, the case became an enduring testament to the personal stakes behind civil rights litigation.

A Decade of Progress—and Continued Work

Over the past decade, more than a million same-sex couples have married in the U.S., building families, sharing legal protections, and celebrating love openly. LGBTQ+ representation in media, politics, and business has grown. Young people today are coming of age in a society where same-sex marriage is not just legal—it’s part of the national fabric.

Yet the journey toward full equality is far from over. Across the country, LGBTQ+ individuals still face discrimination in housing, healthcare, and employment. Transgender rights are under attack in many states. Pride remains both a celebration and a protest—a reminder that visibility and activism must go hand in hand.

Honoring the Anniversary

As we celebrate this 10-year anniversary, here are a few ways to honor the legacy of Obergefell v. Hodges:

  • Celebrate Love Stories: Share stories—your own or others’—of love, marriage, and resilience. Personal narratives are powerful tools for empathy and understanding.
  • Support LGBTQ+ Organizations: Donate to or volunteer with nonprofits working to protect and expand LGBTQ+ rights.
  • Educate and Advocate: Speak out against anti-LGBTQ+ legislation. Use your voice and your vote to champion equality and inclusion.
  • Reflect on the Progress: Take a moment to appreciate how far we’ve come—and to recognize those who paved the way, from early activists to the brave plaintiffs who took their cases to the highest court.

Looking Ahead

The spirit of Obergefell reminds us that change is possible—that the arc of the moral universe does bend toward justice, even if slowly. As we mark this 10th anniversary, we recommit ourselves to the ideals that fueled the movement: love is love, families come in all forms, and everyone deserves equal dignity under the law.

Here’s to love, to equality, and to the road still ahead.

Happy 10th Anniversary, Obergefell v. Hodges.

Thursday, June 19, 2025

A Dark Day for Trans Youth: Supreme Court Fails Tennessee’s Transgender Children

A Dark Day for Trans Youth: Supreme Court Fails Tennessee’s Transgender Children

On June 18, 2025, the United States Supreme Court delivered a devastating blow to transgender rights when it upheld Tennessee’s ban on gender-affirming care for minors in United States v. Skrmetti. In a 6–3 decision, the Court ruled that denying puberty blockers and hormone therapy to trans minors does not violate the 14th Amendment’s Equal Protection Clause—a ruling that should send chills down the spine of anyone who believes in justice and human dignity. 

A Moral Failure of Epic Proportions

Chief Justice Roberts frankly admitted the medical debate surrounding these treatments, but declared that democracy—not fundamental rights—should decide whether trans kids receive life-saving care . Yet the core question was never about policy—it was about human lives. Trans youth are already facing alarming rates of depression and suicidal ideation; denying access to well-established, medically necessary care is a moral obscenity . 

Reinforcing Structural Discrimination

By allowing states to ban trans healthcare under the pretense of “neutral medical regulation,” the Court is sweeping sex and gender identity discrimination under the rug. Justice Sotomayor’s dissent was scathing—and entirely correct—when she said the Court has “abandoned transgender children … to political whims”.

A Slippery Slope for LGBTQ+ Rights

This ruling doesn’t just hurt trans kids; it sends a message that the rights of LGBTQ+ communities are negotiable, expendable even. If constitutional protections can be so easily dismissed, all of us—gay, lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary—are vulnerable. This ruling empowers anti-LGBTQ+ forces and emboldens lawmakers poised to strip away civil rights. It gives a legal green light to hateful rhetoric and bigotry, plain and simple.

Enough Is Enough: Stop Gay Hate

We must confront the underlying forces driving this regressive, dangerous wave: intolerance, fear, and outright gay hate. It is not hyperbolic to say that removing basic health care for a group of vulnerable young people is hate in policy form. It’s time to stop gay hate—with every voice, every action, every vote.

What Must Happen Next

  • Organize: Support state and community efforts to safeguard gender-affirming care. Fight the spread of copycat bills.
  • Educate: Medical associations—and all of us—must continue presenting the evidence: access saves lives.
  • Vote: Elect leaders who uphold the constitutional dignity of all people, not those who violate the rights of the few because they’re unpopular with a hateful majority.

Final Word

This decision is not merely disappointing—it’s an assault on justice. It strips transgender youth of essential medical care, reinforces societal bigotry, and chips away at constitutional safeguards protecting LGBTQ+ Americans. We must respond with urgency, bravery, and unwavering commitment to equality. We will fight back—and we will prevail.



 

Wednesday, June 4, 2025

At Start of Pride Month, Defense Secretary Orders Navy to Strip Name of Gay Rights Icon Harvey Milk from Ship


Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth has ordered the Navy to take the rare step of renaming a ship, one that bears the name of a gay rights icon, documents and sources show.

Military.com reviewed a memorandum from the Office of the Secretary of the Navy -- the official who holds the power to name Navy ships -- that showed the sea service had come up with rollout plans for the renaming of the oiler ship USNS Harvey Milk.

A defense official confirmed that the Navy was making preparations to strip the ship of its name but noted that Navy Secretary John Phelan was ordered to do so by Hegseth. The official also said that the timing of the announcement -- occurring during Pride month -- was intentional. 

READ ORIGINAL ARTICLE AT MILITARY.COM https://www.military.com/daily-news/2025/06/03/hegseth-orders-navy-strip-name-of-gay-rights-icon-harvey-milk-ship.html.

Sunday, June 1, 2025

Pride parades 2025: Here's when major cities are celebrating

This June marks the 55th anniversary of the first LGBTQ+ Pride march held in the United States.

LGBTQ+ Pride Month, also known simply as Pride Month, is held each June, an observation of queer culture through celebration and protest.

Click here to find how major cities are celebrating:

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2025/06/01/pride-month-parades-2025/83880446007/


Friday, May 23, 2025

Irvine, CA hoists Pride Flag at City Hall in honor of Harvey Milk Day

 



Irvine, California leaders raised the Progress Pride Flag in front of City Hall on Thursday, May 22, in honor of Harvey Milk Day and the city’s fourth annual Pride in Irvine event.

The flag will fly through the end of Pride month, June 30.

Harvey Milk was the first openly gay politician to be elected to public office in California, serving on the San Francisco Board of Supervisors from 1977 to 1978. Milk was assassinated in 1978 by a former colleague on the board. 

From the Orange County Register

https://www.ocregister.com/2025/05/23/irvine-hoists-pride-flag-at-city-hall-in-honor-of-harvey-milk-day/

Thursday, May 22, 2025

May 22 is Harvey Milk Day

 



Harvey Milk Day is organized by the Harvey Milk Foundation and celebrated each year on May 22 in memory of Harvey Milk, a gay rights activist who was assassinated in 1978. Milk was a prominent gay activist during the 20th century. He ran for office three times before becoming the first openly gay person elected to California public office, where he served as a city supervisor.

Harvey Milk Day came about as a day to remember and teach about Milk's life and his work to stop discrimination against the LGBTQIA+ community.



Monday, January 20, 2025

Martin Luther King, Jr Day: "I Have a Dream" speech delivered on Aug. 28, 1963

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

But 100 years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself in exile in his own land. And so we've come here today to dramatize a shameful condition. In a sense we've come to our nation's capital to cash a check.

When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men — yes, Black men as well as white men — would be guaranteed the unalienable rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked insufficient funds.

But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt.

We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. And so we've come to cash this check, a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice.

We have also come to his hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism.

Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quick sands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God's children.

It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro's legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. 1963 is not an end, but a beginning. Those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual.

There will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.

But there is something that I must say to my people who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice. In the process of gaining our rightful place, we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred.

We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again, we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force. The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny.

And they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We cannot walk alone. And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead. We cannot turn back.

There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, when will you be satisfied? We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities.

We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro's basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their selfhood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating: for whites only.

We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote.

No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream.

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. Some of you have come from areas where your quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive. Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our Northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed.

Let us not wallow in the valley of despair, I say to you today, my friends.

So even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream. I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream today.

I have a dream that one day down in Alabama with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of interposition and nullification, one day right down in Alabama little Black boys and Black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers. I have a dream today.

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together.

This is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith, we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

This will be the day when all of God's children will be able to sing with new meaning: My country, 'tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrims' pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring.

And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true. And so let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania. Let freedom ring from the snowcapped Rockies of Colorado. Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California. But not only that, let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia. Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee. Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

And when this happens, and when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, Black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual: Free at last. Free at last. Thank God almighty, we are free at last.

Martin Luther King, Jr
August 28, 1963